Why do men think the picture in the mirror with your shirt off is appealing?
If the only pictures you have to post for people to view are you taking them, this is also on the unappealing factor.
I don’t necessarily want to see you with a shirt off; no matter how good you may think your body looks or how good it does look. Might I add that just because you think you look good with your shirt off, 8 out of 10 times men are wrong. It is like they have permanent beer goggles on staring at themselves in the bathroom.
Why does every man have a guitar and want to be a musician or a photographer?
Almost all men play the guitar and there are two types of men I will never trust and that is a musician and a photographer. Call me crazy or say I have some insecurity issues but I can tell you that these two types of men are normally always cheaters or never completely faithful, never going to be emotionally available or just straight up Fucking Weirdos! The musician wants to play his song for you, the song that was written just for you. Guess what ladies, I’m sure that song wasn’t for you and will be the same song for the next. Photographers always want to take a picture of you, why? Can’t you see I have perfectly fine pictures already? I’m not a model or trying to be and your cheesy line will never win this chick over. I don’t want you to take my picture because I won’t be the first and definitely not the last.
Why do men read a profile and always find a way to say we have so many things in common, I’m like well no shit. Sherlock. My interests are most every NORMAL person’s interest, don’t feel SPECIAL you fucking idiot.
Some may ask where this is coming from and it is coming from some place I never thought I would step foot in but an online dating forum. I have to say that I never took it serious but removed myself from Facebook so me being the social networking whore that I am I was bored and created a profile. I do not think you can find love online, however once online I don’t know whether to laugh or feel sorry for so many people out there looking for love. Yes finding it is hard, but good things come to those that wait, right? I’ll probably be the only 60 year old woman still blogging about how she is waiting for Mr. Right to come scoop her up, but fuck it. As online, I have to say there are tons out there trying sooo hard to find someone to share their life with. So desperate they dispose of everything immediately and put their whole heart into their profiles. Then you have the guys out there looking to cheat, or just for sex. However, I have read soo many profiles that I think there are a lot out there that are genuine guys that are desperately lonely. Am I saying that I am not desperately lonely at times? Hell to the No. I’ll be the first to admit that Loneliness sneaks up on me from time to time and I just have to pull it together and not let it consume me. However I am also the type of person that doesn’t really know if a Long Term Relationship will ever be something I am good at or something that I want. If it is not my way, on my terms, or exactly how I want it I ignore it and normally wind up loosing something that would have been great for me, if I wouldn’t have been so damn selfish. Yet again I don’t see anything wrong with this. I think I should be able to pick when and why I want to be with someone without hurting their feelings, buuuuut I don’t like this done to me, so double standard. Maybe and only MAYBE if I do meet that someone my views on relationships will change. Right now I’m just blown away by all the sad lonely people looking for love online. I don’t really know where else you are suppose to look for love if you don’t go to church, or if you don’t go out socially. I agree it’s hard to meet people. I have a handful of people that I’ve been hanging with for 10 years now and the same men (friends) have been in my life, so I get that part. I am just not sure if online is where it’s at. Yes I know, some will say they found love online and couldn’t be happier, but I still don’t get it. Just doesn’t seem right. However I must say this online stuff has made me laugh my ass off numerous times at the shit men will say to try and get your attention. And that I was right, that there is a fuck load of freaks in this world.
That’s it for now….
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